You’re ready to grab something new off the TBR or a gorgeous cover snagged your attention, but you’re in the mood for a certain kind of tale. It might be a tearjerker, or maybe that’s what you want to avoid. Or perhaps you want a little romance, but would prefer it takes a backseat to the rest of the story. How can you know ahead of time whether what you’re in the mood for is actually romantic women’s fiction or romance?

After doing quite a bit of research for an upcoming re-release, I have a few pointers to help you narrow the search. Of course, this post may or may not be entirely helpful considering not all booksellers make much distinction. I know Amazon does, because in the ads console they allow publishers to choose which categories to target for a particular title, but that’s not always the case with brick-and-mortar stores or other online booksellers. Plus, some publishers and indie authors place their books in both genre categories, so…

Let’s first talk about the basic characteristics of romance, since that’s what we focus on here at InspyRomance (specifically CCR):

Boy meets girl. Sparks fly. They’ve each got something that keeps them from leaping in with both feet for a while, but you know they’ll have to work through it eventually. There’s the dance, the push and pull, chemistry, whatever you want to call it, but that troublesome thing keeps cropping up until they’re forced to deal with it. It might break them apart for a bit, but after some soul searching comes that decision to fight for the relationship, likely some swoony kisses, and BAM, happily ever after. The end. Authors can fancy it up with different tropes, varying levels of faith and drama, but we know without a doubt our hero and heroine are going to get through it together and we’ll all have that happy ending we’ve been turning pages for. Essentially, romance = happy ending.

What about women’s fiction—specifically romantic women’s fiction?

There’s often quite a bit of overlap, but there are a few key points that differ, and as readers we want to be prepared for them (yet another reason why reviews can be so helpful in knowing what we’re getting into!). They are NOT the same thing!

• Women’s fiction is issue driven, meaning the characters’ emotional journeys take priority.
• Relationships are often the focus—familial relationships, friendships, and yes, romantic relationships—especially how they help or hinder the heroine’s emotional growth throughout the book.
• Though the story is often told from only the heroine’s POV, this isn’t always the case. Women’s fiction can be dual-POV too, so long as the hero either has a deeply emotional issue of his own to work through OR his emotional growth revolves around the female protagonist’s emotional journey (i.e. how he’s supporting her, trying to understand so he can better support her, or how her issues impact his).
• Women’s fiction can still have romantic threads with kissing (and in mainstream books, bedroom scenes), but it always takes a backseat to what else the story is really about.
• Romances can be highly emotional. YES! We love all the feels. But in romance the feels come from the romantic tension. If the feels are mostly coming from what they are going through within themselves, apart from the relationship, it’s not romance. It’s women’s fiction.
• Happy endings are not guaranteed in women’s fiction. Sometimes they’re reflective. Sometimes they’re bittersweet. Sometimes they’re happy. Sometimes they’re downright tragic.

I hope that helps clear up a bit of the confusion if you’re like me and knew there was a difference, but couldn’t quite pinpoint it. To boil it down really simple, if the romance is a thread in the fabric of the story, it’s women’s fiction. If romance is the whole fabric and everything would unravel without it, it’s romance. 

I’d love to hear your thoughts on the subject. Now that you’re considering things, perhaps there are a few titles you’ve loved recently that weren’t romances but women’s fiction? (Think Carolyn Brown, a popular mainstream author whose books often get miscategorized under romance but are actually Southern women’s fiction.) Do you find you’re more drawn to one or the other?

Due to my own research, I recently realized that several of my own books are miscategorized and I now need to go update their genre categories so they will reach their appropriate audience. My novella Braver With You, for example, which appeared in October 2021’s Save the Date anthology is being re-released on its own next month. I ended up rewriting the blurb for women’s fiction because Ashlyn and Conrad’s relationship isn’t the central theme of the story, it’s Ashlyn’s need to stand up to her mother and their need to work through the trauma of the past so that she and Conrad can move away and begin their lives together without her mother’s influence. So while there is romance, and they’re planning a wedding, it’s not A romance. I had no idea. LOL!

To celebrate us all learning something new together plus the re-release, I’ll choose a winner at random from the comments to receive a signed paperback of Braver With You. Open to US residents only, should an international winner be selected, winner will receive an eBook edition instead. Thank you!

I used to be a paper-only book snob. Then, a few years ago, hubby bought me an iPad mini and the first app I downloaded was the Kindle app and I’ve been hooked ever since.

There are rules for paper books (at least for fiction. They don’t apply to non-fiction where marking up is essential to learning). Don’t fold or crinkle the pages. Use a bookmark or other flat object to mark a spot, never turn it upside down and stress the spine. Use caution when reading near food and drinks. And when it comes to writing, underlining, or highlighting, I shudder.

Now with my eBooks, there are no rules. I’m free to highlight to my heart’s content. A funny line? Highlight. A truly swoony moment? Highlight. An inspirational truth? ALL the highlights!

Since joining GoodReads, I’ve amassed quite the collection of highlighted passages. Which makes me wonder, do you highlight favorite quotes? How do you record those beautiful lines you want to savor later? Do you do anything else with them, like keep them in a journal to read later or make graphics for social media?

For the street teams I’m on, I usually try to create graphics using quotes that stood out or resonated with me. My own street team has been wonderful about doing the same for some of my books as well. Most often, though, I simply keep the highlights saved to my Kindle app to reread later.

One of my favorite recent quotes comes from the sweet rom com Saving The Secret Prince by Kristin Canary: “There’s something about love that makes you weak in all the best ways—able to be vulnerable, to admit that you need each other, to see that you are strongest when you’re together, because a braided cord holds up much better than two individual strands on their own. But love also makes you strong, because a good partner challenges you to be a better version of yourself.”

And how about this kiss in Sara Beth Williams’s Anchor My Heart: “He leaned forward and captured her lips in a gentle kiss. Sweet as honey. Right as home. Fluid and beautiful as an acoustic song. He needed more like he needed air and music and God’s abundant love.” (SWOON! Not even that descriptive, but it’s beautiful!)

And here are a few of the graphics some of my readers created from my books in the past:

They did great work, right? It’s always such a delight when readers enjoy your work enough to take the time and share a quote, highlight, or graphic. I’d love to read some of your favorite quotes or thoughts on highlights in the comments below!

Thanks for hanging out with me today! See you next month during out annual Birthday Bash celebration!